Friday, October 23, 2009

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I really wish that I could tell any and all people that I am a negative person and if they don’t like it I will help them find the door and kick them out of it once we find it.

I am so tired of my “friends” telling me that I need to be more positive on things when I could really care less what happens to certain people. I mean when this certain person kicks your butt all the time and what not, why am I really going to care about when they get out of jail. As far as I am concerned he can stay there forever and never get out. That way he can’t touch her again or rip her heart again when he swears he will change.

That brings me to another point how many times is someone going to believe that people will change when they never really change? I may be slow at times but it only takes me a few times to get that they will never change. Some people it seems to take years to get it or they never get it.

I hate to break it to the world but men who hit women will never change they will always be idiots and jerks!

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antoinette marie said...

sounds like she has good reason to be upset but the bitterness and unforgiveness she's carry around, along with lack of faith, isn't hurting him, but her. blessings...

Nessa said...

One must have a healthy sense of reality - a person's behavior does not radically change without good reason. But with hard work and a strong desire, change can happen.

One should always have hope, tempered with reason.

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Busy Bee Suz said...

This is great...just getting it off your/her/his chest!!!

Trudy said...

Fun! Doesn't it feel great to get things off your chest like that?

Eyeglasses & Endzones said...

Well I am glad that she could articulate that in writing...doesn't it seem like sometimes we are angry but we can't communicate why...I did not get the feeling here!!! ;)

Melissa said...

That sucks about her friend, but I completley feel anony on the negative thing.

Karen Deborah said...

Einstein said, "Insanity is doing the same things over and over again and expecting different results."

Good post!

Brandice said...

To anony-blogger: you are SO right about people not changing. I am just as baffled -- why don't people GET IT? It's just not going to happen. Quit holding out, it's a waste of time.

To blerapy hoster: holy cow, are those your children? Are you the photographer? Such beautiful pictures... both the subjects AND artistry. I am impressed and a little jealous. Wow!

SupahMommy said...

Men who hurt women. always will.

correct a mundo

any friend that hasn't figured that out : is goinna be a friend that will need you ... sadly.

xoxox supah

Princess of Sarcasm said...

"Men marry women thinking they will never change. Women marry men thinking they can change them. " You can quote me on that....except don't....I am not the originator of that comment. But I AM the perpetuator of it....cuz it is so stinkin' true.

Stacey said...

I think antoinette marie's comments said it best.

what a sad situation.

April said...

Nothing better than a good ol' vent session! We ALL need it from time to time!

Tracie said...

There's being positive and then there is being realistic....if your positivity can't live inside of your realism....then it isn't worth much!! You've got to do what you have got to do, and it sounds like you are making a good decision.

carma said...

Bravo on your last statement. Unfortunately past behavior is the best predictor of future behavior.

kisatrtle said...

Men who hurt women usually don't change. I'm sure it feels good to get this off your chest.

Kaishon - it has been too long since I stopped by. Your new layout is awesome and your pictures are stunning.

kys said...

That type of man doesn't change. In fact, they usually get worse over time. I'm glad you had the chance to vent this out!

Unknown Mami said...

Even if there is a chance that they will change, it's not worth it to stick around and wait. Once they've crossed that line, it's over. Deal breaker.

Whimsical Creations said...

Very powerful.

Daphine said...

What a sad thing! So many women stay in relationships like this. Breaks my heart!

I LOVE LOVE LOVE your blogmaker.
Who did it for you? It looks AWESOME!

Suki said...

So true. But sad.
A life like that is just not worth calling it a life.
Hope women would see that they can nobody change but theirselves and THEIR lifes.

Eva Gallant said...

Good to get it out. Much truth to the "never change."

Liz said...

I seriously think most people don't want to change. They don't see that they do anything wrong! I could so write a post about that too!

mimi said...

Wow, that was powerful.

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